I used to believe family meant safety. Not perfection. Not agreement. Just safety—the idea that no matter how messy things got, there would still be a baseline of understanding waiting for you at the door. That belief lasted until I was twenty-nine. That was the year everything in my life stopped fitting into the version of me my family had decided to preserve.
I used to believe family meant safety. Not perfection. Not agreement. Just safety—the idea that no matter how messy things got, there would still be a baseline of understanding waiting for you at the door. That belief lasted until I was twenty-nine. That was the year everything in my life stopped fitting into the version…
