The wedding venue looked like it had been designed to make people behave better. Tall ceilings. Crystal chandeliers. Soft classical music that made even casual conversation feel slightly more formal than it needed to be. Everything about it whispered: be polite, be composed, be small if necessary. My wife, Claire, had been tense since we arrived. Not visibly. But in the way she kept adjusting her dress. The way she checked her phone without needing to. The way she smiled at people before they even spoke.
The wedding venue looked like it had been designed to make people behave better. Tall ceilings. Crystal chandeliers. Soft classical music that made even casual conversation feel slightly more formal than it needed to be. Everything about it whispered: be polite, be composed, be small if necessary. My wife, Claire, had been tense since we…
